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Yours sincerely in Jesus and Mary,
Father François Laisney


           Inter-Racial Marriage

Q   IS Inter-racial marriage against nature? Could you explain Inter-racial marriage?

A  Inter-racial marriage is not against nature! The simplest proof is that it is fecund, they can have children. Same-sex "marriage" can never be a true marriage, simply because they can NEVER have children of their own!


The truth is very simple: the nature of marriage is a mutual and exclusive life-long right to do the "act of marriage", i.e. marital relation: that relation is one MAN with one WOMAN "making a child". This is impossible with "same-sex" people. This is simply EVIDENT.


In every biological book for students, sex is studied in the "reproductive system": it is evident for any scientist that it is all ordered for having children; this is the very nature of it. EVEN THE PLEASURE in it is ordered for having children; indeed, if God had not put pleasure in this act, there would have been many less children, and perhaps mankind would not have survived the challenges and difficulties of life. Even for marital relations outside the periods of fecundity of the mother, such relations do increase the mutual love of husband and wife and thereby lead them to have more relations... even in times of fecundity. The efforts to practice abstinence to avoid children run contrary to mutual love; they can cause lots of frustrations in parents (this is what people object to so-called "natural family planning", and unless there are some grave reasons, such as sickness, such method are not morally permissible; and the grave reasons themselves greatly diminished such frustration because the very love of the husband for the wife, when she is sick, will motivate him to abstain: abstinence itself becomes a proof of love, and thus is not frustrating; but when selfishness is the motive of abstinence then people are drawn apart by the same selfishness that both incline towards pleasure and incline towards avoiding children: such selfishness is evidently wrong).

The whole trouble in our modern time is that people consider that "sex" is first and primarily ordered towards "pleasure" and that the children are undesirable consequences. This is clearly NOT natural. The consequence is blindness of the intelligence (typical consequence of sins against the 6th commandment): they no longer see what is evident; they no longer see that marriage is made for children.


NO SOCIAL EVOLUTION can change that at all. Indeed, today, people have children in the very same way as Adam and Eve conceived their own children: it has NOT CHANGED throughout the whole human history!


One should add that children naturally need the presence of their (biological) father and (biological) mother for many years: there is something very special in being a father and being a mother that makes deep in their soul, deep in their heart, they CARE for their own children MUCH MORE than anyone else would - everything else being equal. Now that last clause said is because there are some bad parents, and it is better to be adopted by a good couple than to be with really bad parents. But - precisely because it is against nature - bad parents are a minority. Even when parents are not good in themselves, they would usually still care much for their children, protect them, and provide for them. Even when they themselves do wrong things, they would usually not want their children to do it...


The purpose of laws is to protect the good and restrict the evils. Everything that promotes the true good of the citizen should be encourage by laws, and everything that is damaging to the common good should be restricted. Now immorality is greatly damaging the children - and the adults too. So laws should restrict immorality in many ways. Modern laws greatly FAIL in this duty. The reason why they fail is that they consider human liberty independently from its good use: human liberty is not an absolute, because it can be used to do evil. It is evident that one should restrain and forbid thieves, and yet they have freely chosen to steal... so liberty is not always good, when it is badly used. Similarly all the immoralities against the 6th commandment should be restricted by appropriate laws, for the protection of families, of children, of the common good of society.


Yours sincerely in Jesus and Mary,
Father François Laisney